Monday, December 10, 2012

Heartfelt Words From Loved Ones

Hello Megan,

I just got your email about the ornament exchange and I am so sorry that your mother passed away. I am glad that you are there in UT and that you were able to be there for her and your family. I pray that you can find peace and comfort at this time. Lots of love and prayers coming your way! 

love,
Deanna
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Hi, Megan and Ryan,

I just wanted to say how sorry I am about your mother’s passing.  I can’t imagine how hard that would be.  I don’t know how I would respond to expecting a pleasant vacation home and having something like that happen so fast. I don’t know how it is from your perspective but for me, I find it not a coincidence that you were able to see her and be with her to say goodbye.  Your testimony was so powerful yesterday.  I don’t know how God’s comfort through the Holy Ghost can be so evident in horrible times but I’m so glad that it comes.  It is so reassuring to know that the presence of the Holy Ghost at these times means that mortality isn’t the last time we’ll see our family members.  I was reading Elder Scott’s conference talk from April for our Elder’s Quorum lesson 2 Sundays ago (right around the time I heard the news of your mother).  Here’s an excerpt that I wanted to share:

“Another example of revelation is this guidance given to President Joseph F. Smith: “I believe we move and have our being in the presence of heavenly messengers and of heavenly beings. We are not separate from them. … We are closely related to our kindred, to our ancestors … who have preceded us into the spirit world. We can not forget them; we do not cease to love them; we always hold them in our hearts, in memory, and thus we are associated and united to them by ties that we can not break. … If this is the case with us in our finite condition, surrounded by our mortal weaknesses, … how much more certain it is … to believe that those who have been faithful, who have gone beyond … can see us better than we can see them; that they know us better than we know them. … We live in their presence, they see us, they are solicitous for our welfare, they love us now more than ever. For now they see the dangers that beset us; … their love for us and their desire for our well being must be greater than that which we feel for ourselves.”1

Relationships can be strengthened through the veil with people we know and love. That is done by our determined effort to continually do what is right. We can strengthen our relationship with the departed individual we love by recognizing that the separation is temporary and that covenants made in the temple are eternal. When consistently obeyed, such covenants assure the eternal realization of the promises inherent in them.”

He taught here things that I haven’t thought about or paid much attention to in the past, but I think I want to more in the future. I hope this is some comfort to you.  From your testimony, it sounds like it already has been the case to some extent. 

Please don’t hesitate to ask Aaron or me for anything you might need help with.  We are willing to help.  Sorry I wasn’t available for a blessing before your trip.  If you’d like blessings in the future, please continue to ask as often as needed.

Sincerely,

Ryan
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I am so sorry to hear that your mom passed away. Please know we are praying for you and are here to help you in any way. I can babysit or bring in a meal or just provide a shoulder to cry on. Let me know how I can help you. 

Our deepest sympathies, 
Nate and Maria
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Alexis
I've been somewhat MIA from Facebook and just heard about your mom. I'm so so sorry about your loss. Please let me know if I can do anything!  Love you!!! 27 hugs!
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Terril
You've been on my mind for days... I hope you're finding the strength to get through this. I can't imagine how hard this must be. I want you to know I'm here if you ever need anything. I love you girl and I know your momma did too... I'm sure she was so proud to have you as her daughter. You'll always miss her but it will get easier with time.
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HeatherOh Megan, I am so sad to hear of the loss of your Mom! I know there are no words, but I want you to know you are in my heart and my prayers! I pray the Lord comforts you and your family through this time of grieving! Sending huge hugs & lots of love your way!!!
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Norma
Megan, I really enjoyed your testimony today. I know how hard it is to loose your mom. My heart goes out to you. Just remember the good times you shared. It will get easier, and will take some time. May Heavenly Father and the Holy Ghost comfort you at this difficult time.  Love, Mimi

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